The Proven Step-By-Step System to Build a Marriage that Supports Your Business and a Business that Supports Your Marriage.

Training in the Art of Sexpionage will give you the tools, strategies, and frameworks to navigate through the friction, resistance and challenges that come with juggling the responsibilities of marriage, family life, and entrepreneurship with ease and fully enjoy the blessings of a healthy, thriving and intimate marriage.

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A Strong and Thriving Marriage,
 A Loving and Supportive Family 
 A Profitable and Successful Business…
 It IS possible to HAVE it ALL!

Training In The Art of Sexpionage is right for you if...

  You're a passionate entrepreneur with no shortage of ambition.
  You have a message to share, impact to make, and revenue to generate or your spouse does.
  You're a devoted husband/wife and parent dedicated to raising happy, well-adjusted children with your partner in crime and best friend.
  You're building a business with your spouse or you and your spouse each run separate businesses and you're feeling the strain of it in your family life.
Training in the Art of Sexpionage will give you the tools, strategies and frameworks to take your relationship with your partner to the next level, grant you unparalleled support from your family and help you reach new heights of success in your business. 

By the end of this program, you will:

By the end of this program, you will:

By the end of this program, you will:

  • Be a pro at showing up for yourself first, so you have the desire and energy to show up for everyone else who needs you.
  • Be able to rewrite the stories that are keeping you stuck in negative emotion and finally be able to write the story you want to be remembered for in your marriage, your life and your business.
  • Be able to look for and identify the good in your life, regardless of any outside circumstances that are out of your control and focus of good problems to solve bringing you closer to success in all areas of your life.
  • Be able to identify the negative patterns of interaction between you and your spouse and understand how focusing on the big picture will foster healing and a deeper connection.
  • ​Be an expert in relating to your partner in all the ways they understand and appreciate love and attention.
  • ​​Have the tools, strategies and frameworks to increase support and create a family culture that you can be proud of.
  • ​Create a shared vision and be able to move towards that together without giving up your personal dreams or desire for development.
  • Understand the need for complete emotional and physical intimacy and how it will enhance your connection to each other and your confidence to succeed in every area of your life.
If you want to experience all of this in a fun and action-packed way, without spending thousands of dollars on therapy or hundreds of hours reading books and other recourses...
Then you need to start…
My name is Monica Tanner and I am a relationship and intimacy expert.
But I wasn’t always the expert.

In fact, if you asked me 10 years ago, I would have thrown my head on your shoulder and cried about being the worst failure of a mother, wife, and business owner in the history of women.

A little dramatic? Maybe…but not far from the truth.
I was being crushed under the weight of trying to be a "good wife", a happy and fun mama to 4 young children and have a little bit left over run a small, seasonal business and develop my talents in a way that made me feel like human, rather than a butt-wiping, laundry folding, mac and cheese producing machine. 
My worst nightmare (the one where I couldn't handle the life I had always wanted) was becoming my reality.

 Call me M... as in MI6

(keep reading to find out why I love this nickname so much)

Then one day, my husband asked me a simple question.
He found me staring blankly out the window one afternoon. 
All my tears were gone.
“Monica,” he said…
“How can I help?”
I calmly told him I couldn't do it all on my own anymore. I needed some help with all of my responsibilities and I didn't want to give up my creative passion.  
I wanted to have a strong marriage and supportive family, but I also wanted to work on developing myself and my business.
And he got it! We got busy redefining a few roles and for the first time in years I saw a light at the end of my tunnel.
Just that small spark of hope and freedom sent me on a quest that has lasted a decade and a half.
I read dozens of books, went to therapy for years, started interviewing experts, even started and dropped out of a graduate program, all in search of the secrets of having a strong and passionate marriage, a loving and supportive family AND a profitable and successful business.

I devoured it all and came up with a method that allowed me to...
  • Reconnect with my husband I had alienated.
  • Find the time to “be there” for my kids by making sure to “be there” for myself.
  • Reimagine myself as a confident and capable marriage and intimacy coach.
  • ​Start and host a podcast called, On the Brighter Side ~ Marriage for Entrepreneurs with hundreds of thousands of downloads.
  • Create a comprehensive course to help other passionate entrepreneurs prioritize their marriage and crush their business goals.
Understanding a few important principles allowed me to rebuild myself emotionally and spiritually.
I was able to find the person I used to be when my marriage was new and full of promise.
And when I had achieved the place where I felt strong and confident again...
I turned my attention to my husband, and my marriage itself.
I applied my techniques and was able to work with my husband to rebuild our marriage from the ground up, and today, I firmly believe there are no two people on planet earth who love each other more than me and my husband.
 We are an unstoppable team who has created the marriage, family life and businesses we have always dreamed were possible. 
And I want the same for you. 
I want to Train You 
In The Art Of Sexpionage.

Understanding a few important principles allowed me to rebuild myself emotionally and spiritually.
I was able to find the person I used to be when my marriage was new and full of promise.
And when I had achieved the place where I felt strong and confident again...
I turned my attention to my husband, and my marriage itself.
I applied my techniques and was able to work with my husband to rebuild our marriage from the ground up, and today, I firmly believe there are no two people on planet earth who love each other more than me and my husband.
 We are an unstoppable team who has created the marriage, family life and businesses we have always dreamed were possible. 
And I want the same for you. 
I want to Train You 
In The Art Of Sexpionage.

A 12-Week mission-oriented, completely interactive, action-packed training that is your roadmap to building a marriage that supports your business and a business that supports your marriage.
But this is not just some boring course...
This is an experience that uses spy terms and analogies to unlock the secrets that passionate entrepreneurs need to...
  Recognize negative patterns of interaction...
  Create a mutually supportive and passionate relationship…
  Build a marriage that supports their business and a business that supports their marriage.
The reason I love spy metaphors so much is because spies are skilled and sexy.
Spies are born with regular skills, just like you and me, but with the proper training, they develop the skills to maneuver and navigate intense and challenging situations, just like those that arise in our marriages, lives and businesses.

And they make it look easy and fun!

Frequently Asked Questions

  Do I need my spouse to take this course with me? What if they are not interested?

Absolutely not. Training in the Art of Sexpionage was designed for passionate entrepreneurs and their spouse, but all of the skills, strategies and frameworks work perfectly if you are taking the course on your own. The missions are date nights and it is helpful if your spouse is willing to go out on the dates with you, but not required. Each mission (date) can be organized on your own and creative solutions can be employed if your spouse is unwilling to participate.

  What if my spouse wants to do the course with me?

Spouses are more than welcome to participate! We love when couples learn Sexpionage together. We like to say two heads are better than one, but one is better than none, so don't feel pressure either way. In the past, we have found that most spouses are curious about the trainings and LOVE the missions, so all are welcome and encouraged to join in the fun.

  When I join Training in the Art of Sexpionage, will I get immediate access to all of the lessons and modules?

No, the modules will be available one per week with a couple of implementation weeks mixed in. We do this so that you have the opportunity to go through each training and complete the missions without getting overwhelmed. Each module builds on the one before it and we want you to have the week to implement what you are learning and start to see the benefits before moving on to the next module.

  Will Monica be available and accessible to answer questions if I need help?

There are many ways to get help from Monica during the 12 weeks of the course. One way is through email. Monica answers all of her emails within 48 hours and email coaching is one of your bonuses. Monica and her team are also in the Facebook group responding to your questions and comments on a regular basis. There are also weekly Q&A sessions where Monica answers questions that have been submitted throughout the week as well as questions from anyone who is there live. We welcome your questions and promise, you will get them answered.

  What if I don't have time to complete the trainings or missions and I get behind?

There is no behind in Training in the Art of Sexpionage. You will get lifetime access to all of the training materials in the Command Center (membership area) as well as the Virtual Headquarters (Facebook Community). Once the 12 weeks is over, Monica and her team will still be available in the Facebook Community to answer questions and offer encouragement. Our goal is for you to complete all 9 missions and have fantastic results.

I personally cannot wait to be your guide over these next 10 weeks...

The tools, strategies and frameworks contained in Training in the Art of Sexpionage took me well over a decade to learn, practice and compile. They have changed my marriage, life and business and over the past few years, I've seen them work for my clients and students as well. 
I have experienced first hand the feeling of winning even when the odds were against me or the circumstances were not ideal. I understand what it feels like to kick against the picks, where everything seems so hard and the difference when I'm prioritizing my marriage and getting the support I need to be successful.
More than anything else, I want to share that teamwork, support and complete connection with you today.
Whether your marriage is struggling, smooth sailing or thriving, if you're a passionate entrepreneur, you owe it to yourself to at least take this risk-free plunge to see what your life would be like with these new tools, strategies and frameworks working for you in your life.
To experience firsthand the courage, confidence, communication, conflict resolution and commitment that Training in the Art of Sexpionage provides to you individually and as a couple.
High performers understand that improving one area of your life, by default improves all areas of your life. Your relationship with your spouse is the most important area you could possibly invest your time, energy and financial recourses, yielding the highest return on investment.
Should you choose to accept my invitation, I personally guarantee that these next 12 weeks will be completely and utterly life changing for you and your family.
I look forward to meeting with you inside Training in the Art of Sexpionage.
Until then, HAPPY MARRIAGING! 

Here's what others are saying...

Filled both of our tanks.

“The content was increasingly intentional to allow us to take small steps toward one another and talk about and then act on things that filled both of our tanks. Emotionally, spiritually, and physically.”
Matt S.
U.S.
5

Monica has this amazing insight into relationships.

" Working with her one-on-one has giving me perspective on my marriage that I didn't realize. I love the extra attention and care she gave me to help my already decent marriage be even better! As a business owner myself, my husband and I struggle with helping each other pursue our dreams, and since Monica and her husband both own businesses, her unique experience and passion for marriages thriving really helped us through a challenging time."
Tracey M.
California
5

Monica's help and advice is life-changing!

"Monica is such a joy to work with. She really understands the common struggles that couples go through with intimacy and connection. Her program is designed to help with all areas of marriages, not just physical. Getting Monica's help and advice is life-changing!"
Susan L.
Idaho
5
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